Comments on: Relationship Question: A Yang to Her Yin http://starrynightastro.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/relationship-question-a-yang-to-her-yin/ Discover your relationship to the Universe Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:16:20 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Beth Turnage http://starrynightastro.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/relationship-question-a-yang-to-her-yin/#comment-43 Beth Turnage Thu, 07 Aug 2008 13:19:04 +0000 http://starrynightastro.wordpress.com/?p=60#comment-43 Steff, It is hard for the body to let go off the addictive affects of relationships. Your heart aches, but your head knows the relationship was not good for you. Healing takes time, and time often blurs what was awful with what was good. You miss the good times you had. I find it helpful in these situations to create and keep on tag line in your head that you replay each time you have a yearning thought. For my first husband, it was something my sister said "And how many times did he make you cry?" Look forward, not back, unless of course, you want more of the same. When you do let go, you can move forward into a new relationship. Steff,

It is hard for the body to let go off the addictive affects of relationships. Your heart aches, but your head knows the relationship was not good for you. Healing takes time, and time often blurs what was awful with what was good. You miss the good times you had.

I find it helpful in these situations to create and keep on tag line in your head that you replay each time you have a yearning thought. For my first husband, it was something my sister said “And how many times did he make you cry?”

Look forward, not back, unless of course, you want more of the same. When you do let go, you can move forward into a new relationship.

]]> By: Stephanie Kemp http://starrynightastro.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/relationship-question-a-yang-to-her-yin/#comment-42 Stephanie Kemp Thu, 07 Aug 2008 11:49:09 +0000 http://starrynightastro.wordpress.com/?p=60#comment-42 I don't know who this 'new' man is...and you are certainly right about distrusting my instincts in the man department. My heart, even after nearly four months, is still so missing my Gemini man (Melbourne Australia 2.30am 26/5/70). I'm finding it so hard to let go...even though I am generally happier in myself again, taken up dancing, getting into my yoga business more, generally enjoying life and friends, there is a huge hole where he was and even with a couple of men hovering around...my only interest is for him. I don’t know who this ‘new’ man is…and you are certainly right about distrusting my instincts in the man department. My heart, even after nearly four months, is still so missing my Gemini man (Melbourne Australia 2.30am 26/5/70). I’m finding it so hard to let go…even though I am generally happier in myself again, taken up dancing, getting into my yoga business more, generally enjoying life and friends, there is a huge hole where he was and even with a couple of men hovering around…my only interest is for him.

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